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The Ways of the Heart Figure 10-1: The fleshly walk of the Half-Hearted Christian. This believer walks according to the flesh and in the ways of old spiritual masters—Satan, sin, the world order, and as one under law—rather than in the ways of God, God’s love, God’s Kingdom, and God’s grace. The Half-Hearted Christian walks in the ways of Satan, sin, the world order, and Fruit for death in the inner man functionally divides the heart, soul from spirit, and strains at least, or severs at worst, fellowship (not relationship) between the believer and the indwelling Spirit of Christ. Now, let’s take a closer look at the fruit produced in and through the inner-self and outer-self dynamics of two types of Half-Hearted Christians: the Broken-Hearted Christian and the Fat-Hearted Christian. Please keep in mind that, while God detests and rejects the sinfulness and fruit for death of Half-Hearted Christians, He loves them unconditionally, and no less than He loves Whole-Hearted Christians. But when their divided hearts interrupt fellowship with Him, and cause them to walk according to the flesh, His Spirit is quenched and grieved. Whether the Half-Hearted Christian’s behavior and life-style are obviously sinful or appear to be religious, moral, and righteous, his heart is not right with God; he walks according to the flesh, is out of fellowship with God, and all of his apparent good works or manifest works are “fruit for death” (Romans 7:5), which is unacceptable to God (Figure 10-2).
Figure 10-2: The ways of the Broken-Hearted Christian produce “fruit for death.” Isaiah writes in graphic language that “All our righteous acts [manifest works, independent of God] are like filthy rags” (Isaiah 64:6 NIV)—that is, as lifeless and worthless as the discharge on a menstrual cloth. All of us have experienced a broken heart—disappointment, sorrow, loss, etc. That does not necessarily make us Broken-Hearted Christians. A Broken-Hearted Christian is one who consistently responds out of a divided heart to negative circumstances in life, in fleshly, Satan-like, sinful, worldly, legalistic or lawless ways. The Broken-Hearted Christian has experienced trauma, rejection, failure, pain, suffering, sadness, and loss. Nothing he does, as hard as he tries, seems to help. And it seems to him that God does not hear his prayers or does not care about his plight. Some of the possible effects of the Broken-Hearted Christian’s way of living are indicated in Figure 10-3:
Figure 10-3: The self-depreciating, fleshly soulical functioning of the Broken-Hearted Christian. The sin-motivated and fleshly condition of his broken heart contaminate his soul with fleshly, Satanic, sinful, worldly, legalistic or lawless thoughts, feelings, desires and plans. His behavior may be outright sinful or fleshly attempts to live righteously. But righteousness rooted in the flesh is counterfeit righteousness. This believer’s fruit or accomplishments are not love-gifts for God, but sin-debt (defilement or consequences of actual sin) that further divide his heart and strain his fellowship with the indwelling Spirit of Christ. This believer has been subjected to many lies, deceptions, and fantasies. His memories—and the lies and fantasies associated with them—are like a cancer in his soul that attacks his mind, emotion, and will, and thwarts their proper functioning. He has distorted concepts of God, self, others, the world in which he lives, and meaning and purpose in life. He may seek to know: “Who am I?” “Why am I here?” “What does the future hold for me?” “Where is God in the middle of my messed-up life and this rotten world?” Emotionally, he may experience self-depreciating feelings of guilt, anxiety, fear, shame, rejection, humiliation, and depression. He quite often sees himself as a failure, worthless, incompetent, and insignificant. In his will, he may harbor desires and intentions that are lustful and perverse. He may blame God for treating him unfairly. And all of this leaves him feeling frustrated, confused, rejected, hopeless, helpless, unloved, and used. The Broken-Hearted Christian has little trust in God. He chooses to depend on the flesh and the world in getting his needs and desires met. And when such dependency proves to be mostly unsuccessful, he resorts to methods of escapism or coping in order to protect self. Escape methods might include denial of reality, rejection of the truth of God’s Word, extreme depression out of pain, suffering, loss, self-pity, cover-up, and any number of addictions. To cope is to attempt to ride out the storm of negative circumstances through one’s own limited strength and resources. Coping or defense mechanisms compile a list without end. The coper may be co-dependent and overly submissive to control, manipulation, intimidation, and exploitation by others. He may resort to employing some of those methods himself, along with lying, cheating, stealing, seduction, people-pleasing, temper tantrums, self-pity, escapism, and withdrawal. Some copers may seek outside strength, solace, and pleasure through sinful and harmful behavior such as substance abuse, illicit sex, gluttony, financial schemes, and death-defying extremist activities. Such believers often try to cover-up their shortcomings by attempting to convey the opposite of what is truly going on in their hearts and lives. They may be outspoken against the very addictions or fleshly patterns of functioning and behavior that hold them in conditional bondage. For example, a person who chronically lies may display open contempt toward others who lie, and this in an effort to deceive others into believing that, since he hates lying so much, he surely would not lie himself. When fleshly coping mechanisms eventually prove to be unsuccessful, a believer might simply give up trying. At the depth of brokenness, he loses all hope in himself, his fellow man, and even in God. It is not uncommon for him to think about suicide. Tragically, he does not understand that his old self has already died and that he is a new-hearted, new creature who is free and victorious in Christ. The Fruit of the Fat-Hearted Christian
In contrast to the Broken-Hearted Christian, the Fat-Hearted Christian’s life experiences have been mostly positive, with relatively few and insignificant rejections and trauma. His life and memories are mostly pleasant, and so he is comfortable in his self-sufficiency and fleshly manner of living. However, he lives a lie—that his apparently successful way of living must be the right way, and even God’s will for him.
Figure 10-5: The self-aggrandizing, fleshly soulical functioning of the Fat-Hearted Christian. As Figure 10-5 illustrates, the Fat-Hearted Christian experiences mostly positive” fleshly dysfunctionality in his spiritual heart. Intellectually, he has distorted concepts of God, self, others, and the world around him. Emotionally, he is generally content, comfortable, secure, self-assured, cnfident, and competent. Because of his apparent success, he may have prideful and exaggerated feelings of self-strength, self-significance, self-righteousness, and self-worthiness. And he believes most people have the same high regard for him that he has for himself. In his will, he may harbor desires and intentions that are lustful and perverse. Since his identity, self-esteem, and security are tied to his wealth and possessions, he may be anxiously driven to protect what he has, and to accumulate even more. The Fat-Hearted Christian’s methods for protecting self and getting ahead bear many similarities to the coping mechanisms of the Broken-Hearted Christian, and may include control, manipulation, intimidation, aggression, assertion, bribery, extortion, lying, cheating, stealing, and so on. Such sins create sin-debt within the soul, and at some point even the Fat-Hearted Christian will begin to experience their negative effects. It is tragic that many Broken-Hearted Christians strive to become like Fat-Hearted Christians. And it is tragic as well that the so-called “prosperity gospel” preached in some churches is designed to motivate and teach them how to do it. Half-Hearted Christians of all types may develop psychosomatic health problems—and may even die from their effects. Paul writes that because such people do not rightly examine their spiritual hearts and do not allow the Holy Spirit to intervene and to heal, “many among you are weak and sick, and a number sleep [have died physically]” (1 Corinthians 11:29, 30). And so the many lies, deceptions, and fantasies stored in the Half-Hearted Christian’s memory hold him in conditional, functional, and behavioral bondage (but not in positional, relational, or ontological bondage). He is robbed of experiencing his freedom and victory, joy and peace, and other forms of grace and fruitfulness that can only be realized through whole-hearted living.
Figure 10-6: The walk of the Whole-Hearted Christian.
Now, let’s turn to the teachings of Jesus on the subjects of producing fruit for God through our unity with Him, our loving obedience, and our love and support of one another. Loving obedience Loving each other
The dynamics of love Figure 10-7 Our behavior is governed by the condition and functioning of our heart. Figure 10-7 illustrates the dynamics of a whole heart—one that is functionally united by love, soul with spirit, and operates in harmony with the indwelling Holy Spirit.
Figure 10-8 When our hearts are whole and we walk in the Spirit and are filled by the Spirit (Figure 10-8), the gift of God’s love is poured out within hearts through His Spirit (Romans 5:5). “The fruit of the Spirit is love” (Galatians 5:22), and when love is manifested in and through us, we produce the fruit of love for God, for ourselves, and for others:
Characteristics of the Whole-Hearted Christian Because the Whole-Hearted Christian is motivated by love, the following statements can be made that characterize his life and life-style:
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